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Dear PB Pro, I have been to a lot of weddings lately where people take pictures and then post them on Facebook, Instagram and other social media. The idea of people doing that at my wedding bothers me. I have a professional photographer there to take quality photos. I want to post those pictures and I should be the first to do it. How can I tell my friends and family to keep their pictures of my wedding off the sites? -- Unplug My Wedding